It's always interesting how lessons come about. I have been trying to be so careful with my words, being cautious that the words I'm using are words I really mean.
I was reminded yesterday of the importance of that. Then this morning, I read an email from QBQ (Question Behind the Question) explaining the same thing. Part of it says,
Being a verbal guy, (I can relate!) one who likes to express just about every thought I've ever had in the form of declaratory statements, candid observations, and unsolicited counsel, I have to be very careful in this area. In fact, my mouth often runs ahead of my brain. Knowing my propensity to fall into this trap, I sometimes ask this fairly odd QBQ! The Question Behind the Question: “What can I do right now to keep my big mouth shut?!”
Remember, each of us is personally accountable for every word that comes out of our mouth—it’s just as simple as that. No excuses! So, whether a friend, a parent, or a boss, let’s commit to controlling our tongue by asking QBQs like these:
“What can I do today to think before I speak?”
“How can I find the good?”
“What can I do to lift others up?”
“How can I better understand the impact my words have on others?”
So just as this is a reminder for me, I hope it is for you as well. You may be one who is good at 'biting your tongue', but I guarantee you still say things that hurt someone...
I am committed to continuing to grow in this area. I'm thankful for people who remind us and encourage us to be better people.
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